Ending Thoughts on
employee/employer relationship for most people is the second most important relationship
in their lives, next to their significant other. This relationship provides their
financial lifeblood, as well as professional self actualization. Most people expect
their employer to be fair. Most people want to be loyal to their employer. When
unfairness, discrimination, or arbitrary decisions threaten that relationship,
most people react. Sometimes they do not react wisely.
Attorneys can help, but they are not the solution. Life
is not about lawsuits. Even though, as the process unfolds, you can feel demoralized,
you should let your attorney guide you out of the maze, making the best of your
legal options as quickly as possible. You cannot come to peace with this situation
through the courts. Your goal must be to resolve this situation as quickly as
possible with as much of your rights satisfied as is justified. Then you move
on to another opportunity.